Thank You

I started writing this newsletter one year ago. The purpose was twofold: to organize my thoughts and to help others. I’ve written every week since then, sharing observations, research, personal experiences, and resources. In reflecting on this past year, a few things come to mind.

I still have so much stuck in my head — so much I want to get down in writing. Sometimes thoughts or phrases come to me during the week and I have to pause and catch them before they slip away.

In some ways the ideas I share are simple — that people can change. But writing about it requires a delicate balance because there’s nuance. This is a sensitive topic. I’m not apologetic, but I’m also not trying to rage-bait anyone who might otherwise benefit from reading.

And while the writing has helped clarify my own thinking, I stay mindful of the second purpose: that this needs to be helpful to others. I’m not writing for myself. I’m writing for you. I’m writing for the teenage version of myself who could have used another perspective.

When I first started, I had no audience. I’d share some thoughts, hit publish, and the work would disappear into the void. Slowly, though, people began to find the newsletter. They subscribed. They commented — mostly kind things. At first I felt sheepish. Part of me didn’t want anyone to find or read it. I guess I just like flying under the radar.

But fast-forward a year later and I have a small audience — people who might actually benefit from these words and ideas. I’m grateful for every one of you who’s here. I don’t get paid to write this, but in many ways I am paid. The encouragement and the heartfelt comments I’ve received make it all worth it.

I know this newsletter is a little different from usual. I just wanted to say a heartfelt thank you for being here. And as always, please reach out, comment, or ask questions — the feedback helps me focus on you.

Let’s keep it going.